Why is it that when you're angry, you shout when you speak...

One fine day, a wise Professor ask of his students,"Why when people are angry, they shout when they speak?"

All students pondered a while, and one of them answered.A: "It's coz we lost our cool, therefore we shout when we speak""

But why, the person is only beside you, you're still shouting? Can't you speak softly? Why need to shout?" asked the Professor again.

All the students, went into a frantic, giving their answers, but none of them that the Professor is satisfied of.

At last, explained the Professor, " When 2 people are angry, the distance between each other's heart grows apart, in order to conceal that distance and assure the other could listen what is spoken, therefore, they shout when they speak. However, the moment they shouted, they grew angrier, and the distance grew further apart, the further the distance became, the louder they shout."

Then.. continued the Professor .. "When two individuals are in love, what would the situation be? It is the opposite. Not only they don't shout when they speak, but softly. Why? This is because the distance between their heart is closer, almost there isn't any distance.Therefore, people who're in love, they speak like they're whispering into each other's ear, and the love within grow deeper, until the state where, without a word, just a glance of the eye, the message is delivered, each other know what the other meant.That is when there is no longer any distance between the couple's heart. "

And last, concludes the Professor, " When two people are arguing, do not let the heart grow apart, do not say things that could make the heart grow apart. Naturally, few days later, when the distance between each's heart is closer, then only work things out "